Thursday, October 30, 2014

IN A BLINK OF AN EYE

Five years
Its been five years
I'm divorced already for five years
I haven't been back into a serious relationship in five years
I'm soo proud of myself
I've been sooo busy doing me and discovering the world I hadn't noticed
Or thought about it at all
Now next thing.....
If God is my witness
I'm getting a college degree 
It has always bothered me that I never finished college
If God is my witness


Wednesday, October 29, 2014

THE CURLY HAIR GIRL

I've got naturally curly hair
It's a blessing and a curse all 
Rolled into one
When I'm in New York City I feel more comfortable wearing my curly hair whenever I want
Curly hair is just part of normal fashion life in NYC 
With the city being soo international 
Your international women will have naturally curly hair 
Not straight "White Bread" hair

White Bread hair is the boring norm in suburbia Americana
All the moms wearing straight Bobs
All the teenagers wearing straight long hair

Here's some curly hair girl pics
Xoxo






BACK TO NEW YORK CITY

Let me show you pictures of my life in New York City 
Xoxo










LETS GET BACK TO WORK

Shaggy is in 
Look at the movement
And layers
Natural look
Sexy






I'M JUST A HAIRDRESSER


RELATIONSHIP ADVICE

People stuck in "Bad Marriages" are less happy, have poorer health and low self-esteem than those who have chosen to get divorced and remain single

LIFE LESSONS

CHARACTER IS SOMETHING THAT IS BETTER DEMONSTRATED THAN DESCRIBED

LIFE OF A SKINNY GIRL

The one thing with being skinny is just can't eat a lot
Going to a smorgasbord for me is a nightmare there is nooo way I'm going back for 2nds or 3rds, I'm lucky to finish what's on my plate
Even eating a basic peanut butter and jelly sandwich can fill my hunger cravings for hours
Hell! I can't even eat a whole sandwich 
Sooo many restaurants serving too big of portion sized! 
There needs to be designed a restaurant and menu for the Skinny girl palette 
I just can't eat all this food
I even had an old boyfriend who eventually was annoyed at my eating habits that after taking me out to a fine Dinning establishment and after seeing I couldn't eat no more than a quarter of my meal announced, " I'm never taking you out to Dinner again!"
Well.....
I think you all know what I did with this charming, obnoxious, rude ex-boyfriend..... Lol
I think he's married to a pleasantly plump gal that I'm sure finishes her meals

 



WORDS FROM A CHEF

Welcome to The Culinary Institute of America Hyde Park New York



#datingadvice #singlemom #truth

A person who is emotionally, socially, or financially NEEDY is likely to seek a partner based on the new partners ability to HELP fulfill one or more of their needs. 

Thus the developing relationship is already unbalanced from the start and the probability of dependency and dysfunction from this point is high

The best thing any of us can do take some time to get yourself right before getting involved with anyone seriously

Then you will find & develop a relationship built on the strengths and gifts that each partner has to offer

Don't be with someone who feeds all the things you lack or who brings you the most status. It's sure to fail. 

THE WORLD IS MY OYSTER

Guess what
I'm going to put my Saturday pajamas 
On tonight!
Is that freaking out all you anal people 
Who live in these regimented worlds ?!
Ya know...
Those of you who back the car in the driveway in the same spot
Those of you who do your laundry same day same time
Those of you who are terrified to move your family room furniture.... EVER
LOL
Psssst to me.... a clean house means moving the furniture every once in awhile
The World is my Oyster
TaTa

YOU DONT NEED HEELS & A DRESS

You don't need heels or a dress to be beautiful
Anyway.....
Some of us are sooo beautiful but have ugly personalities and hearts
You don't need heels and a dress










IF I WAS YOUR DAUGHTER

SURVIVING A BREAKUP WITH A NARCISSIST:

If I was your daughter
Would you have cheated on me?

If I was your daughter
Would you have mentally & verbally abused me?

If I was your daughter
Would you have given me three strikes and your out?

If I was your daughter
Would you have lied

If I was your daughter
Would your words had been so vile, hurtful and deplorable 

If I was your daughter
Would you have used me for as long as you did

If I was your daughter
Would you pick someone over me

If I was your daughter
Would you say you love her then take it back

If I was your daughter
Would you have broken my heart into a million pieces

If I was your daughter......
Does any father want a man to come into her life and hurt her that it renders her sick. 

If I was your daughter
She deserves to be with a man who let's others girls know he's taken 

If I was your daughter
She doesn't deserve to be with a man who promises a dream and delivers a nightmare

If I was your daughter
She deserve a love that always protects, always trust, always hopes and perserves 

If I was your daughter
She doesn't need to have her heart broke, her pride damaged,  her spirit broke or be humiliated

If I was your daughter
You would want her treated like an Angel....
Angels don't live in Hell

If I was your daughter
You wouldn't want her to be in a "Love triangle"

If I was your daughter
You wouldn't want her used for a dress rehearsal for the relationship he really wants 

If I was your daughter
You wouldn't want her with a soulless man 

If I was your daughter
You wouldn't want her with a man who's Brand of Magic was a poison apple

If I was your daughter
Your daughter isn't broken, she doesn't need to be fixed! And if someone is telling her this.... The only person that needs fixing is that MAN

If I was your daughter
She deserves better, she deserves to be with a man not a boy a man will offer her safety, "Real" love, respect a good character, kindness, financial majority. 

If I was your daughter
The right one will love ALL the things about her the others were intimated by

So next time men when you date someone or get involved in a relationship.....
Treat her like you would want your daughter treated 





Monday, October 27, 2014

REMOVING TOXIC PEOPLE FROM YOUR LIFE

Don't be around people that start the drama & then blame you
Some people have noooo idea 
What the word accountability means