LITTLE BIG HORN

I once dated someone that had nooo

Idea what the Battle of Little Big Horn 

Was....

Scary isn't it!

I'm a HUGE history buff

And it was at this chilling moment 

That I realized I didn't belong with this 

Ignoramus 

We all need to socialize within our intellectual parameters and that means 

Dating as well

The metaphor of the story is our relationship would certainly become 

A battle, and I not playing the role of 

Custard 

No, my role would be of the Indians

Fighting for their lives

Fighting for their very existence

Custard is well known in history as 

A bastard, his personality having very 

Arrogant displays of that of a narcissist  

Having no regard for anyone but himself

My metaphor....

Yes I dated a Custard

For one year I would be cheated on

Disrespect, violated and verbally & mentally abused

I certainly lived through a battle

And in my battle the knife would pierce

My heart like no other

I was left dying on the battlefield 

In my battle, Custard would walk away

With no remorse, empathy, compassion 

He would move on to the next conquest

All the world is a stage 

And all the men and women have their

Entrances and exits

But when you date someone for an extended period of time and are with 

Them everyday and every night and they 

NEVER form a bond with you.......

This is a VERY unhealthy person you have 

Encountered

I lived through a battle that I didn't want 

To live through and in my battle for love

I would get scalped, I would be kicked 

And stabbed and left for dead with no 

Remorse

This Indian would not survive her 

"Little Big Horn"

But I will not let my Custard ruin me

I want the whole world to be aware of all the Custards out there! Recognize the signs before its to late. No one should have to experience a battle like I experienced. I was already coming out a 

20 yr battle and only deserved to find kindness, respect, love, happiness. 

I would recieve none of these

Why did this horrible situation get thrown 

Into my life?

I now believe because I was to tell my tale 

Of abuse and get involved with abuse organizations, which I have. 

I believe I was to tell my story

To help others survive

All the Custards in the world

This isn't a reflection on me

It's a reflection on my abuser

Who they really are as a person

Like Chief Joseph would say at the end of his battle, "I WILL FIGHT NO MORE FOREVER" 

And I will not fight, I will inform and educate

Abuse comes in many hidden forms

And no one deserves to be abused!!!

Let the ignoramus live in their own 

Little worlds 

Walk away and NEVER look back

There's a beautiful world out there

Go meet the beautiful people that are in it

You will survive

But you may never forget 

But you will survive the stupidity you 

Encountered

I pray for your recovery

Xoxo