I'm talking bout......
The Always & forever crap that you all fantasy bout
The pathetic stuff poetry & Little House On The Prairie & Disney Movies
Have filled your head with
Love that is deep
Unconditional (Do u know Wut that means!)
Everlasting (not jumping ship when a better flavor is sitting in your face)
The average persons belief system on love is sooo pathetically distorted bc of movies & TV
To the average idiot love goes like this....
Mr. & Mrs. Wonderfully perfect meet
Fall in love
Are destined by God to be together
That special, gorgeous, successful, wealthy, perfect person fulfilling all our delusional dreams of perfection
Happily ever after certainly looks like this in some of your dreamlands
I forgot one of those dreamlands, love
Now I know your either a full blown idiot or you just fell and bumped your head
Fantasyland that you live in is amazing
Wish I cld live there with you......
But most of us don't
Within 2-3 months 6 the most reality of who you both are is finally settling in
And the romance is starting to fade
YES! That quick
The real day to day living starts to occur between 2 people
Now the nasty shit surfaces
Listen, I hate to spoil this for ya all
But I'm a realist anymore. After being married for 20 yrs
If he's not asking you to marry him within a year to a year and a half, he ain't EVER asking!!!! Sooo not kidding!!!
Why invest in someone that's not making YOU an investment???!!!!
Are you stupid or just pathetic ?????
Happily ever after does not exist
And God did not hand pick someone for you.....
In fact it's all an illusion
Society has pushed this fantasy love thing down our throats through movies, poetry, legends and TV shows
THE WHOLE DAMN TRUTH PEOPLE
LOVE CAN ONLY BE FOUND IN YOURSELF
You gotta love yourself first
Before you go & blame someone else
For your baggage
Here's more truth
Most of you out there on the dating scene are running around like chickens with your heads cut off!!!
Most of you are allllll
Running away from LONELINESS
YES, did I just say that to you?????
Co-dependency is a horrible thing
All of you......
Jumping in & out of relationships
Not even healed or over the last person and BAM!!!
Back into bed with the next idiot
Are you that pathetic???!!!!
Ya, you are
You just can't be ALONE
Does anyone ever mean anything to you
Or as long as your not sitting alone??!!!
Take one look
Look at your partner who's sitting next to you
Is that the person you really Love????
Or are they feeding your pathetic EGO
Your low self-esteem????
Are you saying to yourself.....
"Wow, look everyone, look at me, look what I landed"
The rest of the world sees right through all that
Real love means laying down your damn EGO
Yes, that EGO that your father or mother ruined (family dynamics)
Real love also requires that we give up that stupid life PLAN that some of you anals carry around
Sometimes fate changes
Causing our "Life Plan" to change
it requires that stupid timeline of how your life is to progress
You know, you all have it.....
Go to college
Get my masters
Find a partner
Get rid of those stupid rating charts that one moron once put me on!!
God, this bullcrap!!!
Yes, the 1-10 scale
10- exhuming perfection
WHO THE HELL LIVES LIKE THIS!!!
Lay down that EGO
Stand on the bridge to allll eternity
And learn the right way to Love.....
LOVE YOURSELF FIRST !!!!!!!!!!
Learn about being happy w yourself
Love your own solitude
Stop being some co-dependent idiot
Find your purpose here on this planet
Figure out what your passion is
Find peace of mind
Find your Joir De Vivre
WHATS REAL LOVE:
It's a dance w the Devil
A waltz of emptiness
It's wayyyy beyond your stupid, righteous, selfish EGO
WHATS REAL LOVE:
ITS 2 people having a brain
Knowing for the rest of their sorry lives
The grass isn't always greener in someone else's damn garden!!!
The new garden might contain more
Spoiled vegetables than the garden
You just gave up!!!
Now, don't you really look stupid??!!!
Who needs that?????
There's a saying, "just bc the lightbulb
Burns out doesn't mean you go & buy a new house"
Think twice before you sell out the partner your with for what YOUR delusional self thinks is a better model
Most of you that cheat.....
It ends up bitting you in the end
And don't try convince me it doesn't!!!
What evil you throw out into the Universe has a way of getting back at you. And usually 2 folds
So the grass isn't going to be greener with the gorgeous, successful, wealthy spouse! The only thing those requirements are doing is feeding that damn EGO of yours
So what does LOVE come down to????
That partner of yours is only doing 2 things:
Feeding your low self-esteem
Or your lousy EGO
Look at me!
Look at me!
Look at what pathetic me was able to land
Yes, love comes down to only one thing
It comes down to you!
What's going on inside of YOU.....,