Thursday, January 15, 2015

SURVIVING AFTER A NARCISSIST RELATIONSHIP

Yes, you survived
Now turn around and educate e v e r y o n e 
On this personality disorder
Don't stay silent....
That's what the narcissist wants you to do

Their silence is more abuse

Join support groups
Find a therapist that specializes in this
Not all therapist are specializing in this
When looking for counseling interview the potential therapist
Ask them if they counsel in this subject

A narcissist is not just a romantic love interest
NO!
They can show up as your boss
Your mother, father
Your own siblings
Friends
Co-workers

After your discard
And their very quick move into the next relationship with the new target
They will launch a verbal campaign against you
YES, everyone including the new target will be told how "CRAZY" you are!
How you can't let go and move on
How your still contacting them
Their friends will be told how you stalk them
And alll the while, their "camp" will believe them!
They have no choice.....
Until they find out the truth!
The smart educated bystanders will GET IT!
Not only will they get it
But they might reach out to support you
YES!
Sooo many have private messaged me and have soothed my heart
Validation is very comforting

Good people will step forward and tell you how sorry they are that this happened to you
YES! 
The support is comforting
The validation is soothing to your mind and your hurt heart

Relationships aren't conducted like this!
NEVER before had I EVER had a relationship like this! 
EVER!
You are not crazy
You just experienced crazy

NORMAL HEALTHY HUMANS DONT LOOK AT YOU ONE NIGHT AND TELL YOU 
"I'm falling madly in love with you" 
Then the next night cheat!
This is not normal

But you survived
And let those who believe this crazy making machine believe.....
If their smart, they will eventually figure your narc out

My story has been told
Now I have boundaries set up in alll aspects of my life
In dating 
And at work
The campaign against you  will be great
But like I said, a smart man will see through the narcs mask

After my counseling and education
I'm able to recognize them very quickly

Can you spot one as well?????








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