Your just dealing with an ignorant abuser.
When you finally heal from this chaotic, so not normal, blame you for everything relationship, look back and thank the good lord it's not your problem anymore. Normal healthy relationships are not conducted by being controlled, degraded,
Dishonesty, lying, verbal, mental, sexual abuse. I lived it. I know I'm not crazy. A narcissist will try to convince everyone your crazy. These unhealthy personalities
Destroy you. Pick yourself up, get empowered through counseling. The best education I've ever received! Thank you New York City, you did a great job! It's nice to know there are "normal" humans with "normal" thought processes out there. I'm glad I'm not co-dependent and live in fear that my relationship with my significant other ends. Haha you poor empty, low self esteem narcs offer much entertainment. They fear you leave them.
They are jealous of your success. Don't worry finding someone wayyyy better than you its sooo easy. You narcs have nothing to offer, yes you heard me NOTHING. What do you have to bring to the table ??? A great job? A great personality?? What??
Enjoy your hell. But truthfully, narcs never see their lives as hell. I know exactly what their saying, their blaming YOU for the relationship downfall. The blame game....
Lets blame everyone else. Maybe your wife left you because YOU mistreated her??? OH, wow! Did that hit your ignorant brain ?? That's right, as long as your getting your needs met life is good. No one challenge that. Please don't notice that I'm a narcissist or you will be discarded right away. "I think I need to try something else" the narc will say. Laugh in its face and say, "You do that,make my day, go terrorize someone else.... PLEASE! Do me a favor!" It's been years now that I've been free from the narcissist abuse. And I'm finally able to speak out on this horrible relationship and help others. Speaking at my friends support group is so aspiring.
My first hand life experience with this horrible personality disorder has brought me much success. It took me a long time to heal. But now I will forever be able to recognize these traits early on when I date someone. I have the power to weed out the weeds from my garden and be able to recognize the more wonderful blooms. I only feel sorry for my narcs now because now I'm educated and empowered. May you all finally get to exuberant freedom. The happiness in my heart is huge knowing unlike these pathetic souls I have the ability to find Mr. Wonderful and be a part of a healthy loving relationship. Enjoy your hell narcs. Fear is a terrible way to live. It's not about " two nice people that just can't be together" whoever heard of such stupidity?! Only an unhealthy mind trying to justify ignorant reasoning. Two nice "healthy" people deserve to be together. Lol You narcs need "status"
"Arm Candy" to feed your low self esteem.
To bad these victims aren't smart enough to figure all this out and leave your sorry ass. But that just shows their unhealthiness as well. All wonderful men/women deserve only a healthily loving partner who makes you feel safe, loved and supports your life goals. AAAHHH, imagine what that must be like to get positive affirmations not be controlled. I pray for your enlightenment all of you who are in relationships with a narcissist. GOD BLESS YOUR FREEDOM AND HEALING
XOXO
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