A DAY DEDICATED TO LOVE

I may not have been lucky yet to find a Great love

But there's a dream of someone wonderful for me

On this day dedicated to love

I am still alone

But even when I've been with someone 

I've been alone

Always attracting the wrong men

I refuse to play their ridiculous game

Love with the wrong man is like falling off a cliff

Down the ages love has been a mystery

That has eluded everyone

Psychologist describe love as a mixture

Of three components: 

Intimacy

Passion

Commitment

The most popular definition of love is...

It's a mystery

For most of us, or all of us we are all trying

To find it or keep it or mend it 

It can rob of us hope

Does it really ever matter whether we understand it?

Adult love is an attachment bond, like that between mother and child 

Love is Spellbinding 

In contrast

The core of a happy relationship 

Is deep trust

Secure love is an open channel for 

Reciprocal emotional signaling

Love is also:

A constant process of fine tuning

Connecting

Missing and misreading cues

Disconnecting 

Repairing

And finding a deeper connection

It's a dance

Of meeting and parting

Finding each other again

Repair, despair

But if you TRUELY love someone

All the puzzles pieces will work there way

Through and separation of your love 

Will survive and fit back together

It's a revelation and a promise

It's about three words

It's about what really aspired on 9/11

On that dreaded day

When people new they had one last phone call to their loved ones it was those three big words......

And in the end what are we really left with?

Yes, and if I would ever find that special someone someday as well and I had to make one last phone call to him my last three words would be same as they were on that fateful day on 9/11 

Nothing else

"I just want you to know I really loved you!"

I LOVE YOU

So on this day of love

All of you that have found the love of your life let them know, I LOVE YOU...