Those of you who "think" I'm just being crazy about this narcissist relationship have never encountered one.
People didn't make this theory up, this is a real disorder NPD Narcissist Personality Disorder
Yes, it's alive and breathing out there
So are the victims of the Holocaust there's some that believe this never happened either.
There's also conspiracy theory's about 9/11 after living and working in New York I have friends who were in the towers that day or in building 7 or building 1, these conspiracy theories are nuts! I have a friend that showed me a video by Ed Asner
He says, "it's controlled demolition" is he nuts! Lets think about his theory, my friend freaks and says this is ludicrous
How could controlled demolition be engineered in a day?!
I know better than to argue with my doubters and my narcs enablers. My narc has convinced some I'm the "crazy" one.
But when we all are divorced we get on a banned wagon against the other. This is no banned wagon I'm on to exploit my narcissist. This is a story about a a girl who gets divorced looking for her Prince Charming only to get hurt end up in therapy tell my story in NYC and have a professional educate me on this personality disorder. Believe me I wish this was a simple story of a break up but it's not its what happened to me that sets it apart from a normal break up.
The difference was love is not the least bit illogical or random but a wise recipe for survival. Romantic love has an attachment bond just like that with a mother and her children. A good emotional interaction with a partner buffers us from stress helps us with the stress of everyday life. Touch and intimacy spurs growth of "neurons" which helps us "read" and respond in a positive manner to our partners. A good relationship is the best recipe for our health, happiness and even our immune system.
This is how the professionals guarantee I had just lived through a war zone. The lack of emotional bonding with me. There's a huge study these Doctors do on the link between sex and emotional bonding! My case has terrified some of the best clinical psychologist!
This is not a choke on what I lived through
I just don't want anyone to ever experience this. But I know there are many walking wounded out there.
What my narc doesn't understand......
I COULD BE HIS DAUGHTER!!!!
How would my narc feel if his children ever experienced the horror of narcissist abuse. I am a parent and I'm VERY protective of my children. You would flip the hell out!! There's nothing more dangerous than a momma bear that thinks her cubs are in harms way!!!
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