The client

It was because of you that caused me to start this blog as quickly as I did. Your story and the pain & the tears you held back got meeee soooo damn angry. The destruction we are all experiencing is just tooo much to bare. It has to stop!!! But I know it will not. The cycle will continue and the selfish will always do their dance.Completely unaware that someone else's heart just got destroyed. I'm not quit sure what these individuals think. As long as their getting what they want, f.... Everyone else must be their mind set.
The stories I have heard from all of us who have been cheated on are all the same. It's a tough situation to be dropped so quickly and have that person you just adored move on sooo quickly. Leaves you in complete bewilderment! "What the hell just happened?!" You ask yourself over and over. Never get it of your mind.
I have one client who has been love sick now for a year. I've been trying to help her. Be there for her, listen to her. She has no one else to talk to about it. All her friends thinks she's nuts for letting the bastard destroy her emotionally. And she is destroyed!! They don't want to hear it anymore! They can't stand what he did to her and don't understand why she would still be crying over such a pathetic jerk off!
Everyone heals from life traumas at different paces. If your a lucky one your able to get over things quickly. For others it can take years. I believe instead of suppressing it, own it, cry as long as it takes. One thing I know, you will never be the same again. The damage to your soul is just unbelievable. Especially when you were in love sooo deeply. To this day I still think to myself. Would it have been better if he would've just beat the living shit out of me??? Pain is pain.
Cry till you can't cry no more.
In my own situation I'm left in complete schock that the man I thought was sooo sweet and kind and wonderful desired sooo much to be with a Cruella De Vil. I ain't kidding!! The women has such a "bitch" reputation in the community. People that come to my salon that have met her say, OMG! Her condescending, snotty attitude was such a turn off!!! How would he desire to be with that over sweet, happy you?
My story unfortunately does not end like the "movies" my Prince would not find my glass slipper place it on and we live happily ever after. He wound up staying with one of the evil step sisters.
Cruella De Vil wanted to kill the dogs for a beautiful fur coat, and not only did she kill my dogs, but she struts that coat down the runway like no other! As my man stands by her side and assists her! Funny thing is, he probably built the runway for her!!!
"I'm sorry for any hurt feelings" were his last words to me. REALLY!!! REALLY!! People are just tooo much!!