SURVIVING AFTER A NARCISSIST RELATIONSHIP

Yes, you survived

Now turn around and educate e v e r y o n e 

On this personality disorder

Don't stay silent....

That's what the narcissist wants you to do

Their silence is more abuse

Join support groups

Find a therapist that specializes in this

Not all therapist are specializing in this

When looking for counseling interview the potential therapist

Ask them if they counsel in this subject

A narcissist is not just a romantic love interest

NO!

They can show up as your boss

Your mother, father

Your own siblings

Friends

Co-workers

After your discard

And their very quick move into the next relationship with the new target

They will launch a verbal campaign against you

YES, everyone including the new target will be told how "CRAZY" you are!

How you can't let go and move on

How your still contacting them

Their friends will be told how you stalk them

And alll the while, their "camp" will believe them!

They have no choice.....

Until they find out the truth!

The smart educated bystanders will GET IT!

Not only will they get it

But they might reach out to support you

YES!

Sooo many have private messaged me and have soothed my heart

Validation is very comforting

Good people will step forward and tell you how sorry they are that this happened to you

YES! 

The support is comforting

The validation is soothing to your mind and your hurt heart

Relationships aren't conducted like this!

NEVER before had I EVER had a relationship like this! 

EVER!

You are not crazy

You just experienced crazy

NORMAL HEALTHY HUMANS DONT LOOK AT YOU ONE NIGHT AND TELL YOU 

"I'm falling madly in love with you" 

Then the next night cheat!

This is not normal

But you survived

And let those who believe this crazy making machine believe.....

If their smart, they will eventually figure your narc out

My story has been told

Now I have boundaries set up in alll aspects of my life

In dating 

And at work

The campaign against you  will be great

But like I said, a smart man will see through the narcs mask

After my counseling and education

I'm able to recognize them very quickly

Can you spot one as well?????