Don't despair
The human brain is amazingly adaptable and capable with learning
Well.....
We hope
Most of my x's usually lacking one like the
Tin Man in the Wizard Of Oz
One of the WORST things we can do for your partner and your relationship is to believe that your a know it all and actually understand how to make an intimate union work
Bahahahahaha
More than half of us are divorced
Most of half of you men your wives didn't leave you for noooo reason or vice versa!!
Can we finally wake Sleeping Beauty up!!!
Or is it time to give Prince Harming the poison apple???
So really......
Why are we all failing at relationships
I didn't know it was against the law not to be PERFECT when it comes to the Game of Love?????
Some of you boasting how wonderful you are, your that guy that's sooo different
Then you too turn out to be put on the list with the rest of the tyrants
Well listen up Prince Harming
The TRADITIONAL rules for love are gone
Hopelessly outdated. The challenges of love in a rapidly changing world and culture has changed the old roles and added new normals
Pop-psychology is giving us more cliches
And contradictory advice
TRUELY what I've learned
The BIGGEST thing blocking us all from
Being able to learn how to love is
EGO EGO EGO EGO EGO EGO
None of us can simply be honest
And admit
We just don't know how to love someone!!
Lets take some time
Be in the moment
And lets relieve us all of this terrible burden love thrust upon us
Repeat the following out loud 3 x's
I DON'T KNOW WHAT THE HELL IM DOING WHEN IT COMES TO MAKING A MODERN RELATIONSHIP WORK!!!!
Can we ever be relieved of the burden of defending our egotistical preconceptions
Pride and our prejudice about how relationships should be
We all really need to use our intelligence and creativity When it comes to loving someone
Looks fade
The great sex dissipates
Then what are you left with
Condescending Beotch
Isn't going to bring happiness
The only thing Cruella Di Vil
Is looking to get is your pension
And the dust over your grave has no sooner
Settled that loving thing you wanted sooo
Bad & brought home sooo many years ago shoves you 10 feet under
And has a new target within hours!!
Some women having this strategically down to as good
As the Battle of the Bulge was planned!
Ok, lets get back to this LOVE thing
The most loving thing we can say to our
Partner is......
TEACH ME HOW TO LOVE YOU AND I WILL
TEACH YOU HOW TO LOVE ME
Putting this into practice will surpass any of your session at your clinical psychologist, self-help books or marriage
Counselor
Remember, I live through experience with counseling. Most of them are too busy telling us all what doesn't work rather than feeding us what will work for our relationship with our partners
MAKE IT EASY FOR YOUR PARTNER TO LOVE YOU!!!
And remember, there's nooo perfect relationship
They all require work and negotiation, trust and respect to be successful
No one wants to make it hard for us to love each other
So please
Make it easy
Communicating with your partner will go a long way in establishing a safe and satisfying intimate relationship
Love works and looks a little different
With each partner. How to do it well
Is the lesson you must teach each other
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