In the day and life of a New York City Hair Dresser.
Friday, October 31, 2014
Thursday, October 30, 2014
IN A BLINK OF AN EYE
Five years
Its been five years
I'm divorced already for five years
I haven't been back into a serious relationship in five years
I'm soo proud of myself
I've been sooo busy doing me and discovering the world I hadn't noticed
Or thought about it at all
Now next thing.....
If God is my witness
I'm getting a college degree
It has always bothered me that I never finished college
If God is my witness
Wednesday, October 29, 2014
THE CURLY HAIR GIRL
I've got naturally curly hair
It's a blessing and a curse all
Rolled into one
When I'm in New York City I feel more comfortable wearing my curly hair whenever I want
Curly hair is just part of normal fashion life in NYC
With the city being soo international
Your international women will have naturally curly hair
Not straight "White Bread" hair
White Bread hair is the boring norm in suburbia Americana
All the moms wearing straight Bobs
All the teenagers wearing straight long hair
Here's some curly hair girl pics
Xoxo
RELATIONSHIP ADVICE
People stuck in "Bad Marriages" are less happy, have poorer health and low self-esteem than those who have chosen to get divorced and remain single
LIFE OF A SKINNY GIRL
The one thing with being skinny is just can't eat a lot
Going to a smorgasbord for me is a nightmare there is nooo way I'm going back for 2nds or 3rds, I'm lucky to finish what's on my plate
Even eating a basic peanut butter and jelly sandwich can fill my hunger cravings for hours
Hell! I can't even eat a whole sandwich
Sooo many restaurants serving too big of portion sized!
There needs to be designed a restaurant and menu for the Skinny girl palette
I just can't eat all this food
I even had an old boyfriend who eventually was annoyed at my eating habits that after taking me out to a fine Dinning establishment and after seeing I couldn't eat no more than a quarter of my meal announced, " I'm never taking you out to Dinner again!"
Well.....
I think you all know what I did with this charming, obnoxious, rude ex-boyfriend..... Lol
I think he's married to a pleasantly plump gal that I'm sure finishes her meals
#datingadvice #singlemom #truth
A person who is emotionally, socially, or financially NEEDY is likely to seek a partner based on the new partners ability to HELP fulfill one or more of their needs.
Thus the developing relationship is already unbalanced from the start and the probability of dependency and dysfunction from this point is high
The best thing any of us can do take some time to get yourself right before getting involved with anyone seriously
Then you will find & develop a relationship built on the strengths and gifts that each partner has to offer
Don't be with someone who feeds all the things you lack or who brings you the most status. It's sure to fail.
THE WORLD IS MY OYSTER
Guess what
I'm going to put my Saturday pajamas
On tonight!
Is that freaking out all you anal people
Who live in these regimented worlds ?!
Ya know...
Those of you who back the car in the driveway in the same spot
Those of you who do your laundry same day same time
Those of you who are terrified to move your family room furniture.... EVER
LOL
Psssst to me.... a clean house means moving the furniture every once in awhile
The World is my Oyster
TaTa
YOU DONT NEED HEELS & A DRESS
You don't need heels or a dress to be beautiful
Anyway.....
Some of us are sooo beautiful but have ugly personalities and hearts
You don't need heels and a dress
IF I WAS YOUR DAUGHTER
SURVIVING A BREAKUP WITH A NARCISSIST:
If I was your daughter
Would you have cheated on me?
If I was your daughter
Would you have mentally & verbally abused me?
If I was your daughter
Would you have given me three strikes and your out?
If I was your daughter
Would you have lied
If I was your daughter
Would your words had been so vile, hurtful and deplorable
If I was your daughter
Would you have used me for as long as you did
If I was your daughter
Would you pick someone over me
If I was your daughter
Would you say you love her then take it back
If I was your daughter
Would you have broken my heart into a million pieces
If I was your daughter......
Does any father want a man to come into her life and hurt her that it renders her sick.
If I was your daughter
She deserves to be with a man who let's others girls know he's taken
If I was your daughter
She doesn't deserve to be with a man who promises a dream and delivers a nightmare
If I was your daughter
She deserve a love that always protects, always trust, always hopes and perserves
If I was your daughter
She doesn't need to have her heart broke, her pride damaged, her spirit broke or be humiliated
If I was your daughter
You would want her treated like an Angel....
Angels don't live in Hell
If I was your daughter
You wouldn't want her to be in a "Love triangle"
If I was your daughter
You wouldn't want her used for a dress rehearsal for the relationship he really wants
If I was your daughter
You wouldn't want her with a soulless man
If I was your daughter
You wouldn't want her with a man who's Brand of Magic was a poison apple
If I was your daughter
Your daughter isn't broken, she doesn't need to be fixed! And if someone is telling her this.... The only person that needs fixing is that MAN
If I was your daughter
She deserves better, she deserves to be with a man not a boy a man will offer her safety, "Real" love, respect a good character, kindness, financial majority.
If I was your daughter
The right one will love ALL the things about her the others were intimated by
So next time men when you date someone or get involved in a relationship.....
Treat her like you would want your daughter treated
Monday, October 27, 2014
REMOVING TOXIC PEOPLE FROM YOUR LIFE
Don't be around people that start the drama & then blame you
Some people have noooo idea
What the word accountability means
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