Friday, November 8, 2013

LIFE CODE------ DR. PHIL

When standing behind my chair
many of you confide in me about life
the biggest stories I hear is about love
Ok, here we go.....
my mantra on this subject
Enjoy

CHEATING 
Dr. Phil says, "The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior"

If you choose the behavior, you choose the consequence

Those with nothing to hide, hide nothing

And, if he/she is willing to do it with YOU
They are willing to do it to YOU

AAAAHHHH!!!
Have you had an epiphany yet???

You are sacred

When one is in an monogamous relationship, there are only 3 things one has a right to do in private:
                                          SHIT
                                          SHOWER
                                           SHAVE

Emotionally or physically
it's cheating
don't let them talk around this!
Oh no, we are only corresponding because of business
NNOOTT!!!

I've been were your at....
And it's the most disrespectful thing someone who claimed to love you can do

THINK---- "DIGNITY"

The only one thing worse than being in a bad relationship for so many years
is being in a bad relationship for so many years and a 1 day!

Once a cheat
Always a cheat

Are you a " Safety Net Whistle" till he makes up his mind whom he wants to be with?
I was!!

Your not a doormat

No one deserves to be on the receiving end of the abuse
and that's what it is Emotional Abuse!

He will blame YOU for everything
You will never do anything right
And soon it will become his routine to degrade you, judge your every word, every move
You cook wrong, You dress wrong, etc...
She will do everything right
SHE'S NOT LIKE YOU!!!
OH PLEASE!
YOU DON'T WANT TO BE LIKE HER
YOU SHOULDN'T BE COMPARED TO NO ONE!!
IS HE AS GOOD LOOKING AS TOM BRADY, BRAD PITT??
Didn't think soooo
Does he do everything perfect??/
Didn't think so

Some people think a new relationship equals to long term excitement
well guess what that eventually fades too

Is he weighing his options?
advantages/disadvantages of you and his next conquest?
Who's the better girl to be with?
BIT ME!
No way!
Dump him!
Your not an option
Your not a safety net

I don't mean to sound harsh
but no women should be subjected to what your  partner is doing

Is he setting up Taudry  Liasons with her

Dr. Phil refers to this as checking out emotionally
this is what he is doing
checking out of your relationship

yes, he never beat you
But emotional and mental abuse can be a far worse heartbreak

You are sacred

There are other ways to beat a persons heart and soul down
Someone "Mind Fucking" you is emotional abuse

He thinks the grass is greener on the other side
LET HIM GO!!
He doesn't love you
If  he did, know one would be able to come between the 2 of you
He wouldn't be able to bare the thought of being without you
for the rest of  his life

He doesn't deserve an ounce of you or your trust any longer

He needs to go
You will never trust this man again
You will always be checking his emails, phone, and whereabouts

Let her have him!
You, on the other hand are free to find Mr. Wonderful

And just remember......
This S.O.B.
Is just a flat tire on your road to SUCCESS
XOXO









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